Working is not even a viable option for me as a Mum with 3 young kids in a minimal paying career so what is the point?
As a stay-at-home mum, I often find myself wondering how I can provide for my family while living on a limited income. My husband works a good paying job, but with three children to take care of, expenses can add up quickly. It’s a constant juggling act to balance the needs of our family with the financial realities of our situation.
Recently, we had to make some tough choices in order to make ends meet. I started working on Sundays to earn extra income to help with our rising mortgage payments, but it was still a struggle. Childcare for three children can be incredibly expensive, and we had no family support to rely on. It was up to us to make things work.
I researched every possible option to bring in additional income, but the cost of childcare and afterschool programs for three children left me with little to no profit if I were to work full-time. It’s frustrating to feel like my contributions aren’t enough, but I know that I’m doing my best. Being a stay-at-home mum is a job in and of itself, and it’s not an easy one.
There are moments when I feel like I’m stuck in the “mum game,” constantly cleaning, doing laundry, and prepping meals. It’s not glamorous work, but it’s essential to keep our household running smoothly. And while it may feel like I’m not contributing as much financially, the love and care I provide for my children is invaluable.
The fact remains that childcare for multiple children is incredibly expensive, and it’s a struggle that many families face. It’s hard to balance the cost of childcare with the desire to bring in more income, and it can feel like an impossible choice. When you have no family support to rely on, it’s up to you to make things work.
But as a stay-at-home mum, I know that I’m able to be there for my children when they need me. I can take care of them when they’re sick, and I can be a constant presence in their lives. It’s not always easy, but I know that the sacrifices I make are worth it.
To all the stay-at-home mums out there who are struggling with the financial limitations of their situation, know that you’re not alone. It’s a tough job, but it’s also an important one. Keep doing what you’re doing, and know that the love and care you provide for your family is invaluable. And to all the families out there facing the high cost of childcare, know that you’re not alone either. It’s a struggle, but together we can find a way to make things work.
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